Be the man of mystery, she is dying to solve! (5) Use The Element Of Mysteryĭon't let her in easy, always keep your guard up for a while, when you're playing hard to get, just so she's more intrigued by your presence. This can be of great advantage for you, as she'll obviously want you more and when you do have sex with her eventually, it'll be great. Whatever you do, build the sexual tension for a while but never give in, no matter how turned on the two of you are. You can attract her just by using your body language or by doing subtle things like sending hot selfies (not nudes!) of you, or using the element of mystery, to completely intrigue her. You can build sexual tension in a lot of ways. Usually, women are a tease for men but sometimes men can be a tease too. If you're a smart guy, you'd know what I mean. (4) Build The Sexual Tension But Make Her Wait For Sex In fact, be around from a distance, so that she misses you and wants to see you. Don't go completely MIA on her, girls don't like that. You can emerge once in a while and strike up a conversation. Keeping her in mystery about your whereabouts really works like a charm. It makes her wonder about you more, which in turn makes her think about you and want to see you more often. Giving her space is very relevant if you want to win her attention. That's the one thing that will also bring equality into the equation, apart from playing hard to get.īy playing hard to get, you can always make her feel in subtle ways, that making an effort for someone you care about isn't a bad thing at all. But remember to get her to make an effort for you. While she's making an effort, don't negate those efforts or act aloof and don't shy away from making efforts yourself. You obviously want your crush to make an effort for you, big or small. But don't create such a distance that she isn't interested in pursuing anything with you. Like, keep an eye on her but don't mollycoddle her, at least for a while.

So, always weigh the kind of attention you want to give her. The thing is, if you give her the attention she wants, she will stop working towards caring about that attention from you and it'll all end there.

Which means, you really need to get into your crush's head to figure out what kind of attention she wants and try and play hard to get around that. So, give her the attention she needs but not the attention she wants. Even if she doesn't say it, she always wants it. Yes, of course, she wants attention from you. Here are 5 ways you can play hard to get to win her attention: (1) Do Not Give Her The Attention She Wants

Other than that, it's a fun game to indulge in and by the end of it, we know for sure, she's going to be wanting you back as much as you want her in the first place. It's just that it may backfire sometimes if you drag it along too far or if you play too hard to get, to get her attention.

Playing hard to get is different from 'the chase' and in no way, it's as harsh as it sounds. If she knows you're available for her all the time, then she will rain all over your parade and make it difficult for you to get what you really want. I know that playing games sometimes is really a childish gambit, but there are some things you gotta do, to get the kind of attention you need and deserve from the woman you're attracted to, and playing hard to get is one of them!Įven if she knows you're into her, don't throw yourself at her disposal, just so you can win her over.

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